Rebecca Kay Bright, Author

Staying Safe in the Dating World: Essential Tips for a Secure Experience In today's digital age, navigating the world of dating can be both exhilarating and daunting. While meeting new people and forming connections is part of the adventure, it's crucial to prioritize safety and security at every step. With that in mind, here are two essential tips to keep in mind for a safer dating experience: Protect Your Privacy: When it comes to sharing personal information, discretion is key. Never disclose your home address to someone you're meeting for the first time. This includes avoiding inviting them to your home or divulging details about where you live. Instead, opt for public meeting places such as restaurants, cafes, or theaters. Not only does this protect your privacy, but it also provides a neutral and safe environment for getting to know each other. Travel Separately : It may seem convenient to share a ride with your date it's essential to prioritize your safety. Avo

Embracing Independence: Why I've Decided to Stop Dating In a world where dating apps and blind dates dominate the scene, I've made a bold decision: I've stopped dating altogether. And let me tell you, it's been the most liberating choice I've ever made. Gone are the days of stressing over what to wear, where to meet, and whether or not there will be a spark. Instead, I've embraced my independence and reclaimed control over my life. One of the key reasons behind my decision? Safety. Call me cautious, but I refuse to let anyone into my personal space. That means no inviting dates to my home or sharing my address. I've always been a "meet you there" kind of person, and I intend to keep it that way. Maintaining boundaries is crucial in today's world, especially when it comes to dating. By keeping my home and workplace off-limits to romantic interests, I ensure that my safety and security remain uncompromised. Let's talk about transportation. S

Mixed Up Priorities It seems to me that people today have their priorities all kinds of mixed up. I read one female's post today where she said she would move from her current state to the state she is likes more BUT her BOYFRIEND doesn't like it. Boyfriend?? You are letting your favorite dick, who is not your (legal) HUSBAND, dictate your life? To me that's unthinkable. I've been married to a guy like that and am now very happily divorced for nineteen years. And I've been a dumb bitch like said female much later for someone I loved. Dumb because he wouldn't have stepped over a puddle for me much less go out of his way for me like I had done many times. So please gals, and any dudes that behave just as stupidly, DO NOT be acting wifey (or husbany) to a lover if you aren't legally married to said person. Do not shack up. Do not squirt out kids for him. Do not let him or her dictate where you live, where you work, where your kids stay, if you can

Time To Be Ladies  Too many hoes try and hook a man by getting knocked up and too many females think they need a man to provide for them rather then them act like grown woman and provide for themselves.  None of us grown women should be allowing ourselves to get pregnant unless we've married a good man who loves us and we are a good woman who loves him and we are MARRIED. Shacking up and popping kids out with boyfriends etc doesn't make any of us females look good and it gives these males the impression that we are all okay with that and will behave like those kinds of sluts.  Nah. Time for womankind to take back our respect and start acting like ladies again!