Rebecca Kay Bright, Author

Sex! Sex and marriage, viewed through an evolutionary lens, unveil fascinating insights into human behavior and societal shifts. Traditionally, men were driven by an instinctual urge to spread their genetic legacy far and wide, echoing behaviors seen in our animal counterparts. However, some men held steadfast to 'old-fashioned' values, seeking lasting love and commitment with a single partner. In contrast, women historically sought strong, healthy partners capable of providing security and resources for their offspring. The concept of pairing with one mate for life, akin to ancient hunter-gatherer societies, mirrored the modern institution of marriage. The sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s reshaped societal norms, challenging traditional views on relationships and marriage. Both men and women experienced shifts in attitudes, with a decline in the emphasis on commitment before sex and a delay in the age of marriage. Today, notions of commitment and love are evolving, in

Embracing Independence: Why I've Decided to Stop Dating In a world where dating apps and blind dates dominate the scene, I've made a bold decision: I've stopped dating altogether. And let me tell you, it's been the most liberating choice I've ever made. Gone are the days of stressing over what to wear, where to meet, and whether or not there will be a spark. Instead, I've embraced my independence and reclaimed control over my life. One of the key reasons behind my decision? Safety. Call me cautious, but I refuse to let anyone into my personal space. That means no inviting dates to my home or sharing my address. I've always been a "meet you there" kind of person, and I intend to keep it that way. Maintaining boundaries is crucial in today's world, especially when it comes to dating. By keeping my home and workplace off-limits to romantic interests, I ensure that my safety and security remain uncompromised. Let's talk about transportation. S

Cultivating the Garden of Love: A Reflection In the garden of the heart, love is the tender seedling that yearns for nurturing care to blossom into its full splendor. Much like a delicate flower, love requires constant attention and tending to thrive amidst life's ever-changing seasons. It's a notion that resonates deeply with me: the belief that true love, the kind that transcends fleeting infatuation and surface-level affection, possesses a resilience that withstands the test of time. For true love is not merely a passing fancy or a fleeting attraction—it is an enduring bond that weathers the storms of life and emerges stronger for it. In our fast-paced world, it's all too easy to mistake the spark of lust or the allure of fondness for the enduring flame of genuine love. Yet, true love is not defined by fleeting passions or fleeting pleasures; it is rooted in a deep and abiding connection that transcends the superficialities of attraction. Like any living thing, love requ

    Navigating the Complexities of Internet Regulation: A Call for Action Against Violent Pornography      In the ever-evolving landscape of the internet, the debate over regulation, particularly concerning sexually explicit material, remains contentious. The question of how far regulation should extend is one that will continue to spark heated discussions for years to come. At the heart of this debate lies the clash between the freedom of speech guaranteed by the First Amendment and the need to protect individuals from harmful content, such as child pornography and other violent forms of exploitation.      The First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution provides significant protection to expressions of speech. However, it's crucial to recognize that this protection is not absolute, especially when it comes to forms of expression that cause tangible harm. Child pornography and other violent depictions are not shielded by the First Amendment, as they are illegal in most jurisdictions a

You Can't Be A Good Parent & Be Selfish One of the hardest things to come to terms with and learn to do is NOT be selfish once you become a parent. Once you find out you have a baby on the way the days of “I want” “me” and so on are over for at least eighteen years (more if you have more than one kid). If you are a woman and pregnant your body is no longer your own rather you are sharing it with this little person depending on you to protect it from everything, even yourself if you are selfish. I'm sure some of you are calling me every name in the book because you buy into the extreme form of feminism that says a baby is a parasite until it's born and a woman has every right to drink, do tobacco products, do dope, have casual sex, or whatever she wants EVEN when pregnant. Well to that I say you can X out now and go about your day or keep reading and hopefully learn how NOT to be a self centered bitch, your choice. Okay now that's dealt with let me continue.