Rebecca Kay Bright, Author

Embracing True Friendship: Surrounding Yourself with Uplifting Souls In life's journey, we often come across individuals who shape our experiences and enrich our souls. True friends stand out as beacons of light, guiding us through the darkest times and celebrating our triumphs. A true friend is more than just a companion; they are a source of inspiration, lifting us up when we stumble and encouraging us to reach for the stars. They are the ones who lend a helping hand without hesitation, offering support and comfort when we need it most. What defines a true friend? It's simple: if they don't lift you up if they don't encourage you to do right, if they don't stand by your side when you're in need or feeling low, then they aren't truly a friend. In fact, they don't deserve a place in your precious life. Life is too short to surround yourself with negativity and toxicity. Instead, cultivate relationships with those who uplift your spirit and inspire you

Mixed Up Priorities It seems to me that people today have their priorities all kinds of mixed up. I read one female's post today where she said she would move from her current state to the state she is likes more BUT her BOYFRIEND doesn't like it. Boyfriend?? You are letting your favorite dick, who is not your (legal) HUSBAND, dictate your life? To me that's unthinkable. I've been married to a guy like that and am now very happily divorced for nineteen years. And I've been a dumb bitch like said female much later for someone I loved. Dumb because he wouldn't have stepped over a puddle for me much less go out of his way for me like I had done many times. So please gals, and any dudes that behave just as stupidly, DO NOT be acting wifey (or husbany) to a lover if you aren't legally married to said person. Do not shack up. Do not squirt out kids for him. Do not let him or her dictate where you live, where you work, where your kids stay, if you can

You Can't Be A Good Parent & Be Selfish One of the hardest things to come to terms with and learn to do is NOT be selfish once you become a parent. Once you find out you have a baby on the way the days of “I want” “me” and so on are over for at least eighteen years (more if you have more than one kid). If you are a woman and pregnant your body is no longer your own rather you are sharing it with this little person depending on you to protect it from everything, even yourself if you are selfish. I'm sure some of you are calling me every name in the book because you buy into the extreme form of feminism that says a baby is a parasite until it's born and a woman has every right to drink, do tobacco products, do dope, have casual sex, or whatever she wants EVEN when pregnant. Well to that I say you can X out now and go about your day or keep reading and hopefully learn how NOT to be a self centered bitch, your choice. Okay now that's dealt with let me continue.